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Casual RSVP wording for a text or WhatsApp message

The casual text is the natural home of the household link: a friendly message from your phone to theirs, their names already on the page. Short enough to read on a lock screen.

Free, no account. Made by Vowlist — the guest list, budget and checklist are free; the RSVP link is $79 once, no subscription.

Three ways to say it

  1. Hey! [Names] here — here's your RSVP link for [Date]: [Link]. Can you let us know by [Deadline]? Thanks!
  2. Hi [Household]! Wedding's [Date] and we'd love you there. Tap [Link] to reply (by [Deadline] pls). — [Names]
  3. Quick one from [Names]: RSVP for [Date] is at [Link]. Your names are already on it — reply by [Deadline]?

Placeholders in brackets — [Names], [Date], [Link], [Deadline], [Household] — are yours to fill; the generator below does it for you.

Fill it in

No RSVP link yet? Make one free with Vowlist → — one link per household, guests need no app or account, and we never message them.

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Questions about a text or WhatsApp message

Group chat or one message per household?

One per household. A group chat leaks who has and has not replied, and the link you send should be that household's own (their names prefilled). It is more messages, but each is one tap for the guest.

How short can it be?

Very. Who, when, where-ish, the link, the reply-by date. Anything longer belongs on the invitation or the RSVP page itself. The generator below stays under a text-message screen.

Is texting the invitation tacky?

Texting the RSVP link is not the same as texting the invitation. Many couples mail or email the invitation and then text the household link a few days later — the paper sets the tone, the text collects the reply.

Same channel, other tones · same tone, other channels

All combinations: the RSVP wording hub. Not sure of the reply-by date? RSVP deadline calculator.

The link the wording points to

Vowlist gives every household its own RSVP link — the family taps it, sees only their names, picks who is coming and what they eat, done. No app, no account, and we never email or message guests. Guest list, budget and checklist are free; the RSVP link is $79 once. See the guest page → · Start free →