A formal wedding can still collect replies by text — the invitation set the tone, the message simply carries the household's own link. Keep it brief, addressed, and signed.
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Dear [Household], your invitation to the wedding of [Names] on [Date] should have arrived. Kindly reply by [Deadline] at [Link]. With warm regards.
A brief note from [Names]: the favour of your reply is requested by [Deadline]. Your household's link is [Link]. Thank you.
Kindly confirm your attendance at our wedding on [Date] by [Deadline]: [Link]. With every good wish, [Names].
Placeholders in brackets — [Names], [Date], [Link], [Deadline], [Household] — are yours to fill; the generator below does it for you.
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One per household. A group chat leaks who has and has not replied, and the link you send should be that household's own (their names prefilled). It is more messages, but each is one tap for the guest.
Very. Who, when, where-ish, the link, the reply-by date. Anything longer belongs on the invitation or the RSVP page itself. The generator below stays under a text-message screen.
Texting the RSVP link is not the same as texting the invitation. Many couples mail or email the invitation and then text the household link a few days later — the paper sets the tone, the text collects the reply.
Classic · Text / WhatsAppCasual · Text / WhatsAppPlayful · Text / WhatsApp
Formal · Printed cardFormal · Online inviteFormal · QR on the cardFormal · EmailFormal · Save-the-date
All combinations: the RSVP wording hub. Not sure of the reply-by date? RSVP deadline calculator.
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